7 Things they didn’t teach me in school

We all get basic education involving lessons that drill us with ethics and logic. However how many of us feel that certain important lessons are improvised through living and experience? Here are some of the essential rules, facts and a few heads up to be adept with the unpredictable twists and turns life brings our way.

1.Improvise Adapt Learn:

Improvise, adapt and learn. Life brings constant changes, some which you have to accept and live with. This involves your cumulative IQ, how you deal with these changes show your skills to stay in control and have life steered your way. You may not control everything, but you can turn them to your benefit so that things don’t affect you negatively.

2.Adding Value to you:

If you want to be successful, make sure that you add value to yourself. Do not run after success, when you are equipped with valuable proficiency, success will come to you.

3.What you seek for is seeking you:

They say be careful what you wish for cause you just might get it. I hear my niece sing this song often and although the source maybe from a kid show but it holds a deeper meaning when you ponder over it. Anything you want does come your way only if you are driven enough to get there through the right amount of dedication and perseverance. So take a moment, sit with a note pad and jot down three things which hold the deepest meaning to you.

4.Life is a boomerang:

In life you get what you put into. If you want affection, respect and love, give the same. If you want wealth add value to yourself, doing these basic things will help you realize how simple things are.

5.Stay True to Yourself:

Stay true to yourself-By doing that you would have high chances to stay focused to your goals, wishes and direction in life. Learn and understand that you cannot please everybody. Listen to your heart, it may be irrational and childlike but this feeling navigates you directly to your ultimate happiness. Listen to it.

6.You pick up from your environment:

It is important to have positive influences, keep learning from everyone. If your domestic help is organized learn how it maintains it. If your colleagues are knowledgeable, pick up that quality as that too is great power. If the kids around are creative and always up for a challenge make a mental note about it. You learn the most from your immediate surrounding make sure you are surrounded by people who can help you steer the right direction towards your goal. Stay inspired!

7.Value love and respect yourself:

One of the main lessons to learn is how you develop the right relation with yourself. Outside forces may not be in agreement with you even though you know you are right. Stick to what is true and keep at it. It really doesn't matter what opinion others form about you. How you feel about yourself is most important. Be gentle to yourself and do justice to your abilities. Self contentment trumps everything.