How many of us are afraid to try out new things in life?
Whether testing a new dish off a menu card, adopting a new hobby, trying a new
course or pursuing a new career? Undoubtedly things come with a risk factor but
are your fears standing in your way to new experiences and an unexplored world?
Sometimes it may just be us standing in our way for a new
experience. There really might not be an actual out worldly force trying to
stop us as much as the barriers we build in our minds, be it making new
friends, opening up to people, exploring places or picking up a new hobby.
Mostly thinking it will all go wrong. What a sad and fearful state that must
be, which inhibits people to try out new stuff in life!
Life is to be lived in all of its phases. Those who remain
in perpetual fear only stop themselves to live it freely. So what is it that
holds you back from improving your life? If you are worried that things will go
wrong, chances are you have already told yourself so and chances are high that
you begin to believe it that way.
A few ideas to banish away negative thinking is to try and
shift your focus to how a certain situation can turn out to be life altering.
How maybe opening up to new people or giving the existing people a second chance
may only end up in freeing your own self. At times we enforce a few negative
ideas repeatedly in a loop that ends up with a self perceived false reality.
Thus it is important that you re-evaluate your thoughts and assert positive
ones in your mind.
Taking a small step towards your goals may also eliminate
those fears gradually and steadily. If you have a new idea that demands your
time, taking a few steps towards it daily might help. Certain fears need to be
addressed with full force but some may require more time to test waters before
u take the plunge, in any case not being able to pursue your goals with a
perpetual state of fear is a life wasted.
So chuck away the no’s and think there is every reason why
things will work. What’s the worst that could happen anyway? Remember, by not
plunging ahead towards your idea of living would mean you are preciously
holding onto your fears and nothing else. Banish them all today!
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