We all get basic education involving lessons that drill us
with ethics and logic. However how many of us feel that certain important
lessons are improvised through living and experience? Here are some of the
essential rules, facts and a few heads up to be adept with the unpredictable
twists and turns life brings our way.
1.Improvise Adapt Learn:
Improvise, adapt and learn. Life brings constant changes,
some which you have to accept and live with. This involves your cumulative IQ,
how you deal with these changes show your skills to stay in control and have
life steered your way. You may not control everything, but you can turn them to
your benefit so that things don’t affect you negatively.
2.Adding Value to you:
If you want to be successful, make sure that you add value
to yourself. Do not run after success, when you are equipped with valuable
proficiency, success will come to you.
3.What you seek for is
seeking you:
They say be careful what you wish for cause you just might
get it. I hear my niece sing this song often and although the source maybe from
a kid show but it holds a deeper meaning when you ponder over it. Anything you
want does come your way only if you are driven enough to get there through the
right amount of dedication and perseverance. So take a moment, sit with a note
pad and jot down three things which hold the deepest meaning to you.
4.Life is a boomerang:
In life you get what you put into. If you want affection,
respect and love, give the same. If you want wealth add value to yourself,
doing these basic things will help you realize how simple things are.
5.Stay True to
Yourself:
Stay true to yourself-By doing that you would have high
chances to stay focused to your goals, wishes and direction in life. Learn and
understand that you cannot please everybody. Listen to your heart, it may be
irrational and childlike but this feeling navigates you directly to your
ultimate happiness. Listen to it.
6.You pick up from your
environment:
It is important to have positive influences, keep learning
from everyone. If your domestic help is organized learn how it maintains it. If
your colleagues are knowledgeable, pick up that quality as that too is great
power. If the kids around are creative and always up for a challenge make a
mental note about it. You learn the most from your immediate surrounding make
sure you are surrounded by people who can help you steer the right direction
towards your goal. Stay inspired!
7.Value love and
respect yourself:
One of the main lessons to learn is how you develop the
right relation with yourself. Outside forces may not be in agreement with you
even though you know you are right. Stick to what is true and keep at it. It
really doesn't matter what opinion others form about you. How you feel about
yourself is most important. Be gentle to yourself and do justice to your
abilities. Self contentment trumps everything.